Terms of use

Last updated: 27 April 2026

What this service is

justmeornah lets you submit a Discord handle of someone you're talking to or seeing, and notifies you if any other email-verified user submits the same handle. Paid unlocks reveal the Discord handles of those other reporters so you can compare notes directly.

Acceptable use

• Only submit handles of people you are personally talking to, dating, or in some kind of romantic exchange with. Submitting random handles, ex-partners you no longer have any romantic context with, public figures, or strangers is prohibited.
• Don't use the service to harass, dox, surveil, or stalk anyone.
• Don't impersonate someone else, submit on behalf of someone without their knowledge, or use a fake email.
• Don't share the contents of paid unlocks publicly or republish them.
• One account per person. Submissions are rate-limited to 5 per 24 hours.

Abuse and reporting

We take abuse seriously. If you believe a submission is malicious or you've been targeted unfairly, contact privacy@justmeornah.com or use the data request page. We can revoke submissions, ban accounts, and cooperate with law enforcement in serious cases.

Payments

Paid unlocks cost £2.99 GBP and are processed by Stripe. Payment unlocks the Discord handles of other reporters of the same target. Refunds are granted at our discretion if you can demonstrate the unlock did not deliver what was promised — email privacy@justmeornah.com within 14 days. Outside that window, all sales are final. Note that unlocks are intangible digital content delivered immediately, so the UK 14-day distance-selling cooling-off period does not apply once you have viewed the unlocked content.

Liability

We provide this service “as is.” A match means at least two people independently submitted the same Discord handle — it's not proof of infidelity, and it doesn't guarantee that the other reporters are who they claim to be. Make your own decisions; we're not liable for any consequences arising from how you act on the information. Nothing in these terms limits liability that cannot be limited under UK law.

Termination and retention

Submissions are kept indefinitely so the historical-overlap matching works across long time windows (this is the core product purpose — see the privacy policy). You can revoke any submission at any time, and revoking immediately and permanently deletes that submission. To delete your entire account and every submission you made, email privacy@justmeornah.com — we action within 30 days. The person whose handle you submitted can also request erasure via our data-request form. We can suspend or terminate accounts that breach these terms, with or without notice depending on severity.

Governing law

These terms are governed by the laws of England and Wales, and disputes are subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of England and Wales.